Truth be told, my callow palate can't tell the difference between a glass of Bordeaux and a glass of Bud Lite, which is why the wine will not be the reason why I attend the Ladies Spa Day at Bacchante Wine & Essentails April 30.  Nope, it's all about the manicure, pedicure, facial, massage, acupuncture, tarot card reading, Cookie Lee jewelry and a Smashbox makeover.  The services cost from $10 to $35 each and are performed by local small businesses. Of course champagne and wine will be available. No reservation needed.  A Men's Day is scheduled for May 13. Sunday, April 30, noon to 4 p.m., $10-$35, Bacchante Wine, 606 N. Prospect St., Tacoma, (253) 573-9463. - Suzy Stump