STEPH DEROSA: BOOP-BOOP-E-POOP >>>
A serving of homemade mac&cheese at The Corner Bar (previously Hank's) beckoned very aggressively for me to come in and taste. The voices in my head were almost impossible to ignore, so I listened to them and opened the door. Paired with one of their many fine brews on tap, this experience equaled something very close to a severe state of ecstasy. Creamy, flavorful, and extremely sinful, the mac&cheese went down as smoothly as the IPA sitting next to me.
As with all things Toilet Tales, the beer eventually led me to the bathroom.
Maybe one inch bigger than my 1991 dorm room closet, The Corner Bar women's restroom gave me a cramped but comfortable place to rest my bum. The best part was not only the chain lock on the door, but also the huge painted mural of Betty Boop. That is: The huge painted Betty Boop mural that reminded me of my grandmother.
No, not a boring memory of my grandmother playing dominoes on a Sunday after church, but a cool, smart memory. It was intelligence and wisdom only life can teach you. Wisdom of not taking things for granted, and being thankful for what you have.
It used to make me roll my eyes and build gas in my stomach when she would say the inevitable,Why do you need a Barbie? We never had Barbies when I was growing up. We played with homemade paper dolls that we made ourselves. You don't need a Barbie, Stephanie, trust me.I hated it when she said that kind of stuff. What the hell did she know? She admitted she never had Barbies, so how would she know how much fun they were? And I'm sure most of you can attest that I definitely needed a Barbie to survive in 1977 suburbia.
As a mom to a 5-year-old girl in 2008, I frequently recall those statements my grandmother used to make to me. I recall them every time I say almost the same damn thing to my daughter,Another My Little Pony? Why would you need a My Little Pony? You have a million! I never had that many ponies. Hell, I could hardly get a Barbie in my day.
Oh, good gravy. I sound like my grandmother. And you know what? I buy the stinkin ponies for her. What the hell have I turned into?
A sucker for marketing, that's what I've turned into.
I blame the big-time corporate retail entities. Take for example Target. Effin Target. I swear, that red painted bulls-eye is a subliminal message to all: BUY MORE SHIT that you really don't need. It's the Costco syndrome on a smaller scale. You could probably do without it, but it's such a great deal! How could you resist?
Life is so much harder now than it was in Betty Boop's era. There are so many more things tempting your pocketbook. So many things that we decipher as a need when they are really a want.
I remember when we got our first microwave. I remember when cable was first put into our house back in the 1980s. I remember the day exactly, and I remember how thrilled I was at this new luxury. Nowadays it's become a necessity. Or so people think. If you lost everything tomorrow, including all of your money, what would you feel you HAD to have? All of the sudden we would not need that microwave so much, would we?
If I lost everything tomorrow, I would be grateful to simply have my family and my health. Hell I wouldn't even need my health. But I would definitely need a Barbie.
LINK: Bar Exam, er, examines The Corner Bar.
LINK: If you lost everything tomorrow, including all of your money, what would you feel you HAD to have?
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